December 23, 2014 in Adventures in Parenting
I love Christmas! It’s my favorite holiday, which means I can get a bit carried away with baking Christmas cookies, decorating the house and the tree, and finding the perfect stocking stuffers. This year, though, on top of my Christmas preparations, I also had to juggle my reading/writing assignments for my Masters program. It wasn’t long before I realized that December was kicking my ass. Something had to give, and since it couldn’t be my homework, I was going to have to (gasp) scale back Christmas. It did not go well.
ME: Everyone pick your favorite Christmas cookie, and that’s what I’ll make.
OLDEST SON: That’s only four kinds.
OLDEST SON: Don’t we usually have seven or eight different kinds?
ME: Um, yes.
FINAL VERDICT: I made seven different kinds of cookies, but before you think I caved in to my son, this was entirely my idea. I love baking (and eating) cookies, and since I had just purchased a new Christmas cookie magazine…
ME: What do you guys think about getting a fake tree this year?
MIDDLE SON: Yes! Real trees are too much work.
OLDEST SON: That will ruin everything.
YOUNGEST SON: I’ll go with whatever the gang wants.
FINAL VERDICT: We got a real tree. Again, this was my idea. I didn’t like the fake trees: they were the wrong shape. So we got a giant real tree complete with a pine fresh smell. It took us half a day to trim the branches, cut down the trunk, carry it in, get it upright, tie it to the wall so it wouldn’t fall down (which has happened), and vacuum up the pine needles. My middle son was right: real trees are a lot of work.
ME: I am not putting all these ornaments on the tree by myself. You guys have to help.
OLDEST SON: I’ll do it.
OLDEST SON: Do I have to put them all on?
OLDEST SON: Do you care which—
ME: No! Whatever you do will be perfect!
My 12 Days of Christmas looked like this:
12 glasses of wine
11 stores I went to that did not have the gift/size/color I was looking for
10 workshop samples critiqued
9 required books read
8 ½ foot real, beautifully decorated Christmas tree
7 kinds of cookies
6-ty minutes watching Jimmy Fallon Late Night YouTube videos instead of getting my work done (awesome!)
5 hour energy shots
4 hours spent at the movies (The Hobbit and Night at The Museum: rounding out 2 trilogies in one month)
3 hours spent dealing with !@#* Christmas lights with half the strand out
2 gifts that won’t arrive in time for Christmas
1 sick kid
With Christmas only a few days away, the end is in sight! It was a tough month, but I am now reaping the benefits of all my hard work. Now comes the fun part: enjoying quality time with my family. Wishing you and yours a very Merry and Magical Holiday Season!